There once was a boy who had a bad temper. His father gave
him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper,
he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the
boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as
he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered gradually
dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to control his anger than
to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper
at all. He told his father about it, and the father suggested that
the boy now pull out one nail for each day he was able to hold his
temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell
his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by
the hand and led him to the fence. He said "You have done well,
my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be
the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar, just like
this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out, it won't matter
how many times you say sorry, the wound is still there." A verbal
wound is as bad as a physical one.
Friends are rare jewels indeed. They make you smile and encourage
you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and always
want to open their hearts to us" It's National Friendship Week.
Show your friends how much you care, and forgive me if I ever left
a hole in your fence!